The Moneyist: My girlfriend admitted to having ‘some’ student debt, but I just found out she owes $83,000. Should we still plan to buy a house together?

Dear Quentin,

My girlfriend and I have been dating for approaching two years now and are starting to think about future plans — including buying a bigger place together for a forthcoming family. 

We currently live in the one-bedroom condo I bought in 2017. I’m 38 and feel confident about my financial situation. I…